Sunday, September 09, 2007

News Flash: War Between Men and Women Not Over

..and probably never will be.

When I meet a pretty girl and beg her: "Be so good as to come home with me," and she walks past without a word, this is what she means to say:

"You are no Duke, with a famous name, no broad American with a Red Indian figure, level, brooding eyes and a skin tempered by the air of prairies and the rivers that flow through them, you have never journeyed to the seven seas and voyaged on them wherever they may be, I don't know where. So why, pray, should a pretty girl like myself go with you?

"You forget that no automobile swings you through the street in long thrusts: I see no gentlemen escorting you in a close half-circle, pressing on your skirts from behind and murmuring blessings on your head: your breasts are well laced into your bodice, but your thighs and hips make up for that restraint; you are wearing a taffeta dress with a pleated skirt such as delighted all of us last autumn and yet you smile--inviting mortal danger--from time to time."

"Yes, we're both in the right, and to keep us from being irrevocably aware of it, hadn't we better go our separate ways home?"


--Franz Kafka, "Rejection," Wedding Preparations and Other Stories 99
(Penguin Paperback 1979)

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